You You Hello, I'm Zig Ziglar And I'm really excited that we're able to spend this time together in a few minutes this empty studio Will be filled with hundreds of people who just like you believe that to get ahead in life You got to have goals during this program We'll look at why goals are important how to set them and how to achieve them the hour you spend with this tape Maybe the most important time you'll ever spend in your life Now join me and our studio audience as we take those first steps towards a happier and more productive Life do this and I'll see you at the top Wow What enthusiasm my goodness alive read something the other day you're gonna be enormously intrigued with read where every third person was either Remarkably handsome all are Amazingly beautiful Now what I'd like to get you to do is look directly at the person on your left No left Now look directly at the person on your right and if it ain't either one of them Well, that ought to get that ought to get us off to a good start here Just as a matter of curiosity how many of you have ever either heard me speak before or else This is your first time. Can I see your hands? Okay? Hey, we're with it here tonight. That's great The name Howard Hill will probably ring a bell in the minds of some of you But not all of you Howard Hill was a good Alabama boy He was an archer many people said he was the greatest of all time He entered two hundred and eighty seven archery tournaments. He placed first 287 times as a youngster. I've seen newsreels of Howard Hill I've seen him where they were filming him killing a Cape Buffalo the toughest of all game animals to bring down with a bow and arrow. He killed a bull elephant He killed a large shark under about 15 feet of water as a youngster I've seen newsreels where from 50 feet he would shoot at a bullseye and split it Precisely in the center and then he would take his second arrow and with a second arrow He would split the first one an amazing Demonstration of skill now. I have never shot the bow and arrow professionally But I am an instructor par excellence. I think that's French, which means I'm really good But I'm not absolutely certain of that as a matter of fact I am so good as an instructor of archery that I could spend 20 minutes with any man or woman In this audience this evening and provided your eyesight is normal and your health is good at the end of 20 minutes I would have you hitting the bullseye more consistently than Howard Hill could have hit it the best day of his life Provided we had of course first blindfolded Howard Hill And then turn him around a couple of times so he would have no idea in which Direction he was facing and you kind of snicker and you say why Ziegler that's the silliest thing I've ever heard Why of course we could shoot better than him because how in the world could a man hit a target? He could not even see That's a pretty good question. Here's one even better. How can you hit a target? You don't even have The question my friends is do you have? Your targets have you clearly identified what it is that you want in life Have you set a date as to when you expect to get it? Have you identified the obstacles you must overcome? In order to get there have you identified the people the groups organizations you need to work with in order to get there Have you spelled out what it is? You need to know to reach your objective Have you developed a plan of action and have you written it down as to what's in it for me? Why do you want to reach the goal in the first place? You see the problem with most people is they're what we call a wandering Generality in life, but the truth is you can never achieve greatness unless you become a meaningful Specific you see the basic problem is most people when they're working on their job They get to thinking you know I really ought to be spending time at home with my family and then when they're at home with the family get to thinking you Really ought to be out there working for my family and so when they're out there working for the family their mind is back home And when they're back home their mind is back out there in the field, and then they tell everybody Well, I don't ever have time to do anything No wonder you're always traveling You see the basic problem is not lack of time it is lack of Direction we all have exactly the same amount of time whether we're a millionaire or a pauper All of us have 24 hours every single day The truth is ladies and gentlemen we must have goals if we're going to do anything goals do a lot of things for example They enable you to chase the blues away I've never known anybody who was truly depressed who had specific and long Range goals and what goals do is they create activity and you see activity as you work towards reaching them Creates the very excitement which you need in order to accomplish or reach your objectives The psychologists put it this way Logic will not change an emotion But action will and as you get busy working towards of these dreams of yours And yes, you absolutely must have your dreams ladies and gentlemen and what we're going to do is look at the ways you build a foundation underneath those dreams Several years ago. They did an experiment with a number of college students and in this particular Experiment they let them go to sleep and they hook these brain machines up to them with these brain machines They could determine precisely within a matter of seconds when the student went to sleep Then they could tell when that student started to dream and as the student would start to dream They would awaken him or her and then they let him go back to sleep and that is no problem But when they started to dream they would awaken them again and with those brainwave machines They can tell exactly when they start to dream at the end of one night of this kind of treatment Many of the students were nervous and fidgety at the end of two nights of this kind of treatment where they had a reasonable amount Of sleep, but no dreaming They became very irritable and very short and very cross at the end of just three nights of a reasonable amount of sleep But no dreaming they could tell that some of them were headed for some Psychological difficulties and so what they did was they aborted the experiment now about 24 hours later Most of the students were back to normal within a week all of them had returned 100% But the experiment proved something very conclusively and that's this when you're asleep ladies and gentlemen You need your dreams I'm here to tell you that when you're wide awake, you also need your dreams You must have your goals. You'll never make it as a wandering generality You must become a meaningful specific if you're going to work tomorrow because that's what you did yesterday You're not going to be as good tomorrow as you were yesterday because now you're two days older and no closer To the goal which you do not have you can't make it as a wandering generality Most people understand you got to become a meaningful specific It reminds me of an experiment done some little while ago by Jean-Henri Fabre the great French naturalist He took a number of processionary caterpillars So named because they follow each other in a procession and he lined them around a flower pot until they formed a Never-ending circle and they started going round and round 24 hours that first day And then they went the next day and the next and by the about the third of the fourth day He put some pine needles into the center of that flower pot That's the food of the processionary caterpillar They kept going round and round seven full days and seven full nights. They went round and round until they literally dropped dead from starvation and exhaustion With an abundance of food less than six inches away. They had starved to death because they confused activity with Accomplishment you've got some friends that are in the same shape. They're busy busy be all the time They're going going going going and they're here and they're there and they're somewhere else But they never really accomplish anything because they don't have those specific clearly Identifiable objectives you gotta have those goals Now that you know why it's important to have goals take the next few minutes to prepare a dream sheet write down Everything you've ever wanted to do or be or have now don't be judgmental Let your mind run free Here's a guide to help organize this dream sheet as you write down one idea It will trigger others no matter how far-fetched are seemingly unrealistic Be sure to write down everything begin with travel and Vacations where you want to go and how you're gonna get there your automobile the kind the color all of the options the house That the size of it the style and all of the extras the money savings investments your career the salary of the Increase the raises and all the benefits which go with it your promotions The children and your family the education activities the shared time Friendship the respect the helping of others your health your your body weight the exercise your religion your church involvement your religious study and your mind Education reading recalled now if other things come to mind you add them to your list Take your time to complete this list and when you are finished set it aside for 24 to 48 hours At that point get out your dream sheet again and after each item write why? Now this is crucial if you cannot clearly Articulate in one sentence why you want to be do or have what you included on your list It is not something you're serious about so take it off. We'll get back to this later Yet the truth of the matter is 97% of the people in our great land Never really set their goals in the proper light in the way that you are going to be taught during the course of this program 97% and one of the major reasons is because of a little thing called fear now you spell fear obviously F-E-A-R and that really is an acrostic for false evidence appearing real But if it appears real ladies and gentlemen, it's real for example. I could take this handkerchief and My finger and rob the bank in your town and all probability all I'd have to do is put the handkerchief over my face put my finger in my pocket and walk up to the taller end of my Meanest voice say give me your money and chances are superb that they would give me the money The evidence would be false, but it would appear real and because of that They would give me the money a young Cuban hijacked an airplane to Cuba with a bar of soap He took it to the captain of the aircraft and he said let's go to Cuba I've got a bomb in here though. The evidence was false It appeared real and they went to Cuba You see the truth of the matter is a lot of people collect a great deal of false evidence Evidence and the net result is they never set the goals now Let me assure you there's a certain amount of danger in setting goals For example next Monday morning I get on an aircraft in Dallas, Texas going into Atlanta, Georgia date 45 now I've got sense enough to know that when I get on that airplane There's a certain amount of danger when I get aboard that aircraft because some airplanes are coming down faster than to go up And I'll tell you when those airplanes come down faster than they go up There's danger for me, but there's more danger for the airplane You see when an airplane comes down faster than it goes up You just about can't hardly trade those dudes in at any price. I mean their market value is gone See there's danger for the airplane, but there's more danger for the airplane if it stays on the ground Did you realize that according to the engineers an airplane will wear out faster sitting on the ground? Then it will wear out flying in the heavens. It'll rust out on the ground It'll wear out in the heavens not nearly as fast in the air as it'll rust out on the ground Besides airplanes are built to fly You get on a ship there's danger it might sink but there's more danger for the ship if it stays at anchor in the harbor experts tell me that it will collect barnacles and become unseaworthy faster in the harbor than it will if it sails the high seas and Besides that's what ships are built for now There's a certain amount of danger in setting your goals because you see you might not reach Those goals but folks there's danger if you don't set the goal You see man and nature are a hundred and eighty degrees apart. We use up nature's natural resources by using them up But we use up man's natural resources By not using them at all Oliver Wendell Holmes expressed it very eloquently when he said the tragedy in America is truly that we waste our natural resources but one of infinitely greater Tragedy is the fact that we waste our human resources by not using What we've got the average person goes to their grave with their music still in them What a shame you got to have goals ladies and gentlemen I want to talk a little bit about goals on the light of how do you lose a 37 pounds and write a book I'm just gonna kind of give you that as an example for 24 years of my Adult life by choice. I weighed well over 200 pounds I say by choice because you see I have never accidentally eaten anything. I Mean it's always been deliberate and when I choose to eat too much today I have chosen to weigh too much tomorrow you can choose to set goals and realize your potential or you can choose not to set them now if you choose not to Set them you got to understand that the consequences are not going to be good down the road For 24 years. I was going to lose that weight as a matter of fact in 24 years I lost several thousand pounds of weight how many of you already know exactly what I'm talking about But it wasn't until I wrote it down Put a date on it Listed the obstacles. I had to overcome Identified the people the groups organizations. I needed to work with spelled out a plan of Action set that time limit in there and identified all of the benefits to me It was only when I did that that the goal became a reality Reality and I lost the weight for 10 or 15 years. I was gonna write a book You know anybody who's gonna do just a whole lot of things folks I was gonna write a book, but it wasn't until I got busy Writing the book and writing the plans first before the book ever materialized Yale University 1953 did a study of their graduating seniors They discovered that only 3% of them had taken all seven of the steps you need to take in setting Your goals another 10% had taken part of the steps but the majority 87% beyond graduating from college and Becoming a professor or a preacher or a doctor or whatever Very few of the other 87% had taken any of the steps in setting those goals now 1973 20 years later They did another study of these graduating seniors and in the area which you can measure which is in your career and in your finances The 3% who had taken all seven steps that is they had written down clearly identified exactly what they wanted They had put the date on when they expected to get there. They had identified the obstacles They had to overcome they had spelled out the people the groups organizations They had to work with that identified what they needed to know They had developed a plan of action and they had written it down Why do I want to get there these 3% had accomplished more than the? 97% combined who had not set those girls goals now They sound like I'm trying to sell you on having goals How many of you are getting close already how many of you're being coming convinced right quick like that? You need to have those goals. There's no question about it The immortal JCPenney many many years ago said give me a stock clerk with a goal And I'll give you a man who will make history But give me a man without a goal and I'll give you a stock clerk Now the interesting thing is goals do not care who has them Let me give you a classic example of the way they work in 1950 a war-torn devastated Japan a nation which had lost an incredibly high percentage of its young men Their cities were in ruins. They had been bombed out, but in 1950 they got together They meaning industry and government got together and set a goal the goal was we're going to be the number one nation in the world during the 1950s in the production of textiles in In 1959 ladies and gentlemen, they accomplished that objective in 1960 they set another goal We're going to be the number one nation in the world in the production of steel now when you understand There's no iron ore in Japan of any significance. There's no coal of any significance there We're going to be the number one nation in the world in the production of steel It seemed like an absurd goal and yet they reached their objectives. They had taken all of the steps in 1970 the Japanese set another goal They said during the 70s will be the number one nation in the world in the production of automobiles They missed it folks One year it took them until 1980 in 1980 They set another goal and this time their goal was we're going to be the number one nation in the world in the production of computers and electronics and they're working very very hard to reach their goals. Yes, indeed ladies and gentlemen, you Absolutely must have those goals. You got to write them down. You got to put a date on it You got to identify those obstacles You've got to identify the people the groups you need to work with you got to find out what it is You need to know you got to develop a plan of action and you got to write it down What's in it for me? Now that's a formula that I have just given you pure and simple now if I were to ask you what three times three was There is that a person here who could not instantly answer it But if I were to ask you what is five thousand one hundred and twenty eight times two thousand one hundred and sixty five Odds are enormous that very few of you could pop out the answer that quickly Buddy if I were to say to you get your pencil and paper out figure it out Then all of you could figure it out. Why you know the formula now You see if you know the formula it really doesn't make any difference ladies and gentlemen what the goal Really is when I started to write the book I took precisely the same steps that I'm talking about I wrote down the objective I wrote down the time I completed or expected to complete the book I identified the obstacles there and yes, I know this is repetitious. It's the mother of learning I wrote out and identified the people the groups organizations. I needed to work with I Devised a plan of action to do it. I spelled out what I needed to know and I wrote it all down What's in it for me? I? Think most of us would like to be part of that successful group of people with goals But few of us take the time to sit down and write out our plan for life The truth is most of us just don't know how to go about doing it So here are seven steps to help you start setting goals first. You've got to identify the goal Next you need to set a deadline for achievement number three. You need to list the obstacles to overcome Number four you need to identify the people and groups to work with number five You need to list the skills and the knowledge required to reach your goal number six You need to develop a plan of action and number seven you need to list the benefits. What's in it for me? These are the seven steps you must take to set your goals The truth of the matter is you see there are seven types of goals But the formula works exactly the same whether it's a social goal a mental goal a Physical goal doesn't make any difference what kind of goal is let me kind of Alert you and give you a simple example of why we need to be alerted to why we need some of our goals For example, is there anybody here who has a racehorse worth in excess of a million dollars? Can I see your hands? Okay. Now if you did have a thoroughbred horse worth in excess of a million dollars Would you keep him up half the night letting him drink coffee and booze and smoke cigarettes and eat junk food? Now chances are you'd say Ziegler, that's crazy. Of course not. How about a ten dollar dog? Would you treat him that way? Five dollar cat What about a billion dollar body See we need goals Identified to take care of our physical body. We need family goals. We need career goals We need spiritual goals. And yes, we also ladies and gentlemen need financial goals Before going any further it's time to take a personal inventory Kind of a checkup from the neck up to see how you're performing in various areas of your life As each area appears on the screen Evaluate yourself on a scale of one to five five being excellent Begin with a physical area of your life rate yourself on appearance Medical checkups exercise programs weight control and nutrition The next area is the family your listening habits your forgiving attitude of being a good role model Timed together supportive of others respectful and loving financial earnings your savings and investments budget adequate insurance charge accounts Social your sense of humor your listening habits your self-confidence your manners and caring The spiritual the inner peace the sense of purpose prayer religious study belief in god mental imagination attitude continuing education reading and curiosity career job satisfaction effectiveness job training Understanding the job the purpose and your competence now Review your performance in all seven areas and determine which areas need improvement We will use this evaluation later in the program to help you set your goals Now goals have certain characteristics For example, we need some big goals and some multiple goals We need more than one goal. If you just have one goal, you'll end up being a warped individual Now if you only have one goal chances are good You're going to reach it if you really work at it as we've been talking about But you don't want to be warped. You need the balance that we're talking about I'd set the goal of losing the 37 pounds now. That is a big Goal, you need big goals because big goals force you to reach your goals Goals because big goals force you to reach in and utilize the potential which is there I love the story of old gentleman jim corbett the former heavyweight boxing champion of the world Corby was out doing his road work one morning And he saw a fisherman who was just having a field day I mean he was pulling in the big ones and he was pulling in the little ones and corby noticed that as he was running past The fisherman was putting the little fish in his creel and he was throwing the big ones back in He couldn't resist it. He walked over to him. I ran over to him and said mister He said i've seen a lot of fishermen in my lifetime But I believe you're the first one i've ever seen who threw the big fish back and who kept the little ones now Why in the world would you do a thing like that? And the fisherman sadly shook his head and he said man, I I hate to do it But he said I don't really have any choice. I have to throw the big ones back Because you see all i've got is just this little old bitty frying pan Now before you laugh too broadly Let me point out he's talking to you and about you And he's talking about me so many times we get the big goal the big idea of a big dream Something that would make a big difference not only in our lives But other lives and no sooner do we get this big goal and say oh no lord don't give me such a big one All I got is just this little old bitty frying pan Give me a little one just a little one don't make me stretch besides You know if the goal was any good if the idea was any good somebody else would already have thought about it Just give me a little one folks you got to have Some big goals in life because it's the big goals which really make you reach in And uh and use the resources which are at your disposal and the resources you have are awesome Emerson was absolutely right when he said what lies behind us and what lies in front of us Pails in significance when compared to what lies within us You've got within you the capacity to reach some of those big goals Now you need to follow the steps we're talking about because that makes them sensible and sound and logical But we need some dreams. We need some big goals One of my goals was to lose 37 pounds because I was sick and tired of being Sick and tired in a nutshell now one of the toughest things i've ever done in my life Was to discipline myself to get on that exercise program requiring the jogging and requiring the dieting Up until then you see my idea of exercise had been simply to fill the tub take a bath pull the plug and fight the current I mean You know that was it And Anyway, you cut it folks. That really is not much of an exercise program And I finally got on it and I went to work to lose that weight and I took Ten months that was a big goal. It was a goal which made a definite difference in my life Writing the book was a big goal. It made a different a definite difference in my life Now you got to have some long-range goals as well. Ladies and gentlemen now I don't want to be negative matter of fact I'll be like the little boy who came home from school one day and said dad I'm afraid I flunked the rheumatic test his dad said son. That's negative be positive. He said dad I'm positive. I flunked my rheumatic test Now i'm absolutely positive folks that you're going to have some difficulties in your life in front of you Ladies and gentlemen, there is trouble Some of friends of yours are going to disappoint you your employer or employees are going to disappoint you There's going to be some setbacks and reversals that you absolutely cannot understand There are going to be things happen in your future that will frustrate you flabbergast you amaze you Disgust you and everything else and that's the reason you've got to have long-range goals You see if you've got those specific long-range goals, ladies and gentlemen, and then when things don't go exactly your way You will treat the setbacks as a pebble on the beach If you don't have those goals, you'll treat it as if it were the whole ocean front You got to have long-range goals And the reason you need long-range goals is because the long-range goals help you to deal with and overcome those short-range Failures the rule is very simple you go as far as you can see And then when you get there, you'll always be able to see further I set my goal to lose thirty-seven pounds in ten months. That was my objective And as I looked at it thirty-seven pounds in ten months I knew and I knew in my own mind that I could reach that goal of losing thirty-seven pounds In the ten months, but we got to break things down Like when I get aboard that aircraft in Dallas going to Atlanta you see for the first 20 minutes We'll be headed straight towards Atlanta, but after 20 minutes We'll no longer be going to Atlanta don't know where we'll be going But it won't be Atlanta, Georgia because the direction of the wind will change the velocity will change The gravitational pull of the earth the sun the moon and the stars will all blow that Airplane off the course and so the captain of the aircraft will turn the aircraft around fly back to Dallas land and start over Just saying if you're paying attention how many of you How many of you know perfectly good? Well, he's not going to do that He's going to make a different heading. Is he not he's going to change the course You see when you have those long-range goals a lot of things times things happen to you Well, you don't abandon the goal as my younger brother judge. Ziegler says you don't Change your decision to go You simply change your direction in order to get there See, we can't always predict what's going to be out there when I set the goal of losing the 37 pounds in 10 months I broke it into 10 parts 10 months. I was going to do it That's three and seven tenths pounds per month now folks I knew I could lose three and seven tenths pounds a month. You see that's less than a pound a week I knew and I knew that I knew that I could lose three and seven tenths pounds a month as a matter of fact I was so certain that I could that I didn't even bother to get started the first 28 days I mean if you know exactly what i'm talking about, I mean listen man, the contest is six months Why get all exercised about it the first week or but mom school just started. We've got nine more months Why should I knuckle down and study now or look i've got all week to get the correspondence out boss man or boss lady Why should I have a hustle so hard today? But you know time marches on 28 days and then I realized what was happening. I was raised in a little town of Yazoo City, Mississippi Now I know that a lot of folks go around the country trying to impress people by claiming to be from Yazoo City But I really am now when I was a boy During the depression we lived next door to some rich folks I knew they were rich for two reasons number one they had to cook number two the cook had something to cook and During the depression that was a sure sign of wealth. I was over there for lunch one day as I tried to be every day And I don't misunderstand that even though there was a depression on we certainly had plenty to eat at my house I know we had plenty because if they ever passed my place for seconds that always tell me no you've had plenty So I know we had plenty now the cook brought the biscuits out and this is not an exaggeration Those biscuits were not as thick as my wristwatch and I looked at it for a moment I said maude what in the world happened to your biscuits? She reared back gave a big old tummy laugh and said well, I'll tell you about those biscuits She said they squatted to rise But she said they just got cooked in the squat You know anybody that's getting cooked in the squat You know, nobody who's going to do something just as soon as or they're half a mind to do such and such thing You ever have anybody say well, you know wait till the kids get out of school And then I'll really get involved in this project. We got so many things going on right now wait till they're out of school wait till summer time comes and then I'll really Get busy the kids get out of school. You know what they say then well, you know, I didn't realize it But I got to take the kids somewhere every day I had more time when they were in school waiting to get back in school and then I'll really get busy kids get back Until you know what they say then well, you know for the first time in 19 years Dear old central high has finally got a win in football team and you got to support the kids there Wait after the football season is over. Then I'll really get busy football season. Then you know what they say then well Here it is. Thanksgiving and Christmas and new years and people don't want to be bothered with this sort of thing this time Yeah, wait after the first of the year man, then I'll really get busy after the first year. You know what they say? Well, it's the weather did you ever see weather like this in Chicago or San Francisco or Dallas or wherever wait The weather settles down and then I'll really get busy. Oh, I know what you're thinking You're thinking I've lost interest in it, but that's not the way I do they did Just let me take the way I do things. Now. Here's the way I am. So this is just the way I do it See the way I do things is I get everything organized I get it lined up I have everything in just such-and-such order and then man once I get it all put together That's when I really get after I mean, that's just the way I've always been that way do things that way I know some of these other folks are hitting me right now, but you just wait I'll catch them But this weather it is just so horrible wait till it clears up and the weather clears up. You know what they say then Well here it is. It's Easter time and Easter time You know, that's a family time and we always spend a lot of time together and you said so yourself The family is extremely important to you You do the work for the family and if you can't spend some time with them, you might as well not do all the work I mean wait after Easter's over then I'll really get busy and then after you see know what they say at long last We've got some beautiful weather and I haven't hit a golf ball or wet a hook and I don't know when man I got to have some R&R. I got to have some rest and relaxation and you know You said you can't work all the time I mean an individual needs some time with themselves wait till I relax a little bit and man then I really Get after it and finally they get after a little bit, you know, or when they have the fun and relaxation then they say well It's almost time for the kids To get out of school And that's where we came in as we say down home folks You can put this in your pipe and smoke it cause it's the truth The people who wait for ain't Matilda to move out or John to get on the day shift Are the new models to come out or the new mayor to come in are for the new advertising campaign to get started The people who wait on the new senator in Washington or until inflation slows or the rate of interest come down The people who wait for changes to take place out there before they do the change in in here are Flat gonna end up getting cooked in the squat The rule is simple. You do it now You do it now When I analyzed what I had to do when I wrote it down and understood my objective that all I had to do was lose one and Twenty nine one and twenty nine hundred ounces per day Then ten months later to the each to the ounce and to the day. I had lost the weight The truth of the matter is in writing the book. It's a 384 page book. It's entitled. See you at the top We've sold in excess of a million five hundred thousand copies. I wrote one point twenty six hundred pages a day For ten months you see to reach your goals. Ladies and gentlemen, it does not involve Monumental undertakings every day of your life But what it does involve is a lot of commitment a lot of decision and working on it and a relentless steady Committed basis you got to do something every day when I broke it down into that specific thing You see goals. You got to be specific. You can't make it as a wandering generality you absolutely must become a meaningful specific you can take the hottest day the world has ever seen take the most powerful magnifying glass you Can buy in any store and hold that magnifying glass over a pile of newspaper clippings on that hottest day and you'll never start a fire To keep the glass moving but the moment you hold that glass still Harness the power of the Sun multiply it through the glass and boom you got a fire You got to have specific goals. My goal was specific Write the book by July 4th Lose the weight at the same time to the inch to the ounce and to the day it all came to pass You've got to have those specific goals During this program. We've asked you to prepare a dream sheet and a self-evaluation sheet Look at your self-evaluation sheet and determine which areas need improvement set some specific Goals for these areas now take your dream sheet and itemize only those things which you truly Want to achieve combine these items with those from the self-evaluation sheet and you will have a Comprehensive list of your major goals from this new list select at least two goals You will work on every day. It will be easier to select these goals If you remember that for each goal, you must answer yes to these five questions Number one, is it really my goal number two? Is it morally right and fair number three are my short-range goals? consistent with my long-range goals number four can I commit myself Emotionally to complete the project and number five can I visualize myself? Reaching this goal for each goal you plan to work on daily set a deadline for achievement List the obstacles you need to overcome Identify the people in groups you need to work with List the necessary skills and knowledge develop a plan of action and list the benefits you will receive then periodically Evaluate each of your goals when one goal is reached replace it immediately with another Your emphasis on certain goals may change so it is critical to review your goals list Regularly now the question often comes with all of us if we want to reach our goals How do you go about it? Do you share your goals with other people that possible is the most often asked question of all to me? How and who do you share your goals with and the rule is basically fairly simple if it's a give-up goal You share it with everybody if it's a go-up goal You share it only with those people Whom you love and trust and whom you know are going to be supportive of you now for example I'll give up goal if I'm going to give up eating too much or drinking too much if I'm gonna give up smoking if I'm gonna give up cussing if I'm gonna give up being mean and nasty and Ordinary any of the go give up goals like that I want to share it with other people because others are supportive and they will encourage you in there But for example if you're a salesperson and your goal is to be the number one sales lady in the organization Are the number one salesman in the organization and you go to another one of the sales ladies and say hey I'm gonna be number one sales lady in this whole organization this whole year and that lady's objective was to do the same thing Do you think she's gonna say to you? Yeah, you can sure do it when all the time she's wanting to do it Uh-uh, but if you go home and tell your husband or your wife Yes, indeed. I'm going to be number one this year. You'll get the encouragement and the support there, which is so extremely important yes, you really have to have that understanding of goals if they're give up goals share them with everybody if they're Go up goals share them only with the people whom you know will give you the support Want to reach your goals you got to make a commitment now one of the basic problems in life is so many people do not Make commitments when I was losing that weight one of the toughest things I've ever done in my life Was continue to deny myself the food which I so dearly love especially the sweets And it was really tough to get involved in all of that jogging But I had made a commitment and because the commitment was made I really Decided I was going to stay with it I had another commitment when I wrote the book one of the first things I put in there was that I weighed 165 pounds and that I had a 34 inch waistline I had it types it now at the time I put that in there I weighed 202 pounds and had a 41 inch waistline Now the reason that's important is very simply this I could not get a publisher to publish the book initially for me later There's no trouble, but initially I could not I had to publish the book myself And in there I decided to order 25,000 copies a friend said if you sell 25,000 copies you got yourself a bestseller So I ordered 25,000 copies of the book now. Let me tell you something about books the first copy cost you more than the next 24,999 and those 24,999 ain't cheap I'm talking about a whole bunch of money now. I made a financial commitment to buy those books I also had read in there that I weighed 165 pounds now Let me tell you something about human nature if I tell you one lie and you catch me in it from here on in Everything I say you're gonna put a question mark after it if you tell me a lie And I catch you in it from here on in everything you say to me I'm gonna put a question mark in it in my book. I wrote away to 165 pounds I had 25,000 copies of the book now you can imagine what would happen if I had not lost the weight now I got a warehouse full of books anyway 165 and I come waddling out at 202 and your next question will be I wonder what else he lied to me about Friends. I made a commitment. There is no question about it You got to make a commitment and you got to understand something which is extremely Important and that is that your vocabulary makes a great deal of difference in your success in life I got to apologize for those people who've heard me do this But for years I went around the country and with a strained expression on my face and pain in my voice I'd say you gotta pay the price Sound like a dying calf in a snowstorm And what a bunch of baloney that was I'll never forget Nine months of hating jogging and hating joggers. How many of you hate joggers? Can I see your end? Okay for nine months I really hated those joggers You know every time I saw one he's jumping up and down and said man. It makes you feel so good It gives you so much energy and there I was hating and hurting every step I was taking and fussing about it too and then that day in Portland, Oregon Never forget it if I live to be a hundred and fifty beautiful spring day temperature about 78 degrees It was high noon. I was running on Portland State University campus had a seminar at 4 o'clock This was high noon and as I was running out there that day I noticed a lot of the students were laying on blankets summer reading summer studying summer courting summer snoozing and here comes old Ziegler running by sweat running down my back sweat running down my legs and all of a sudden it hit me that For the first time I was really enjoying Running I was having a ball and that day I changed my vocabulary The truth is folks. You don't pay the price for good health You enjoy the benefits of Good health you don't pay the price for setting goals You pay the price for not setting those goals. You enjoy the benefits of Reaching those goals You don't pay the price for a good marriage You pay the price for a poor one you enjoy the benefits of the good one You don't pay the price for good health. You pay the price for poor health. You enjoy the benefits of Good health. Yes Your vocabulary really does make a great deal of difference as to whether or not you reach your goals or not We definitely need to keep it positive Because you see the mind takes whatever picture you paint in it and goes to work to complete that picture I want to emphasize that what you get by reaching your goals is not nearly as important as what you become by reaching them the attitudes knowledge and skills and habits developed by people with goals are of Infinite value in the tomorrows of their lives with goals You can more fully realize your maximum potential because goals enable you to know Be do and have more use your mind and talents fully Have more purpose and direction in life make better decisions be more organized and effective Do more for yourself and others have greater confidence and self-worth Feel more fulfilled be more enthusiastic and motivated and yes Accomplish some uncommon projects Want to reach your goals? You got to know how to train fleas now just as a matter of curiosity How many of you in this audience do not know how to train fleas? Can I see your hands, please? Boy, it looks like I got to you just in time And I know you heard the one about the two fleas at the bottom of the hill and one of them said well Do we walk or take a dog? Well anyhow You train fleas by putting them in a jar and you put the top on the jar and those fleas will jump up They'll hit that top over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over And you watch them jump for a long period of time And they'll keep on jumping and hitting and jumping and hitting and you watch him and then all of a sudden you'll notice That even though they continue to jump they will no longer be hitting the top Literal truth, then you can take the top off and they'll jump and jump and jump and jump and jump and jump but they cannot I repeat they cannot jump out and the reason they cannot jump out is because they've been Conditioned to jump just so high and once they've conditioned themselves to jump just so high. That's all there is there ain't no more Man is precisely the same way He starts out in life to climb the mountain to write the book to break the record To do something with his life and along the way bumps his head He stubs his toe and it becomes what I call a snap now a snap and that is spelled s n Iop is a person who is susceptible to the negative influence of other people Classic example that everybody will instantly recognize is the four-minute mile for years and years and years At least the world over had tried to run a mile in four minutes But because they were snaps they could not do it the coach had taken his watch out and said man There ain't no way you can do it in four minutes Maybe 402 maybe 405 but not four minutes The doctors had put their stethoscope on the athletes heart and said a four-minute mile. You got to be kidding man Nobody will ever do that your heart will come right out of the body It is impossible and nobody could run a four-minute mile until a fleet trainer named Roger Bannister came along and Ran a mile in less than four minutes when Bannister ran the mile in less than four minutes athletes the world over Started running the miles in less than four minutes land of Australia. Did it less than six weeks later? I was in New Zealand last year and the man over there Thompson I believe is his name though. Please don't hold me to that had just run his 100th four-minute or sub four-minute mile a 37 year old man ran a mile in less than four minutes there have been four or five Races were eight young men all broke the four-minute barrier in the same race Now what am I saying with all this? I'm saying that Roger Bannister got something started and I'm also going to tell you that Roger Bannister Understood more about gold setting than just about anybody you will ever know He didn't just train superbly and go run a sub four-minute mile. Yes. He trained Extraordinarily hard, but he measured his stride. He timed himself for the 100 the 220 the 440 He had pacers who paced him for the first quarter the second quarter the third quarter in the fourth quarter He did it as scientifically and as carefully as any gold setter I've ever seen in my life Yes, Roger Bannister is a flea trainer. What's a flea trainer? A flea trainer is a person who's driven from within? They're not influenced by the sniops and the negative people in life a flea trainer is an individual who jumps out of the jar a flea trainer understands that you can get Everything in life you want if you'll just help enough other people get what they want Flea trainers don't tell others where to get off Flea trainers show them how to get on Flea trainers don't try to see through other people Flea trainers see other people through Want to reach your goal ladies and gentlemen, you absolutely must become a flea trainer and you've got to build a winning attitude We could talk three days three weeks three months about building winning attitudes Harvard University did an exhaustive study on it discover that 85% of the reason That people get jobs and get ahead in those jobs is because they have the right mental Attitude the Cox report involving well over a thousand corporate executives These men and women were asked the question How important do you think your attitude is in accomplishing your objectives of becoming corporate executives? 49% of these men and women said that their attitudes were extremely significant 46 and a half percent said they were significant in other words 95 and a half percent of these more than 1,000 executives said their attitudes were Significant are extremely significant to reach your goals. Yes. Indeed. You absolutely must have the right Mental attitude and ladies and gentlemen, let me say without any hesitation at all If you're going to reach your goals, you got to get other people Involved you simply cannot reach major objectives entirely on your own You got to understand that the influence other people have and the help they can give you will play a major role in what you do when I was a small boy down in Yazoo City, Mississippi, I Never shall forget there was an abandoned section of the railroad track and as boys will do we often went down there And one of our little games was to see how far we could walk on that railroad track without falling off And we'd take a few steps and we'd fall and we'd take a few steps and we would fall Had we only understood that two of us could simply have gotten parallel with each other Reached across the rails and held hands that we could have literally gone indefinitely without falling off when business when management and labor Understand that they're on the same side when husbands and wives and children Understand that they're on the same side when employer and employee Understand that they both have the same objectives when they begin to work together That's when everybody really benefits the most You look at the Super Bowl teams every year and by and large you're going to have the Super Bowl team The number one had major objectives. That was it Nessan and as you realize that they spend over 3,000 hours each team preparing for That specific event Did you realize that the average American spends infinitely more time planning a vacation than they do planning their lives? Did you realize that more people spend more time planning the wedding than they do the marriage? You see we need Ladies and gentlemen, we need those specific objectives and we need to work together on these things If we really are going to work at our maximum and the most people benefit the most you need to work together It's a matter of curiosity. How many of you have ever seen a flock of Canadian geese flying overhead? Can I see your hands? Okay, if you have you will notice three things about those Canadian geese number one They always fly in a V Formation number two if you will notice them one leg of the V is always Longer than the other leg of the V and number three if you follow them carefully enough And long enough you'll notice there's a considerable amount of confusion in the flock Now just as a matter of curiosity How many of you have ever wondered why one leg of the V is always longer than the other one? Can I see your hands, please? Well, let me explain that the longer leg is longer because it has more geese in it You know, I don't know why but that silly thing just really grabs me I can't wait I can't wait to get to that particular one. Okay. Now the reason there's confusion in the flock Is that periodically they change the leadership of the flock of geese Now the reason they fly in a V formation is because in wind tunnel tests They've discovered that the flock of geese can fly 63% further than the individual goose could fly What they do the lead goose in fighting the headwind creates a partial vacuum off either wing And those other geese are flying in a partial vacuum He grows tired very easily or more quickly than the others And so they replace leadership real often to give the leader a rest But by working together they can fly 63% further In reaching your objectives, yes indeed you really do need to work with other people If you want to reach your goals ladies and gentlemen, you got to get in shape Now I want to emphasize something here which I believe is enormously important In order to reach all of our goals we need to get in shape spiritually Because that is a very definite factor in our life We have spiritual goals but we need spiritual help a lot of times to reach all of the other goals It requires study, it requires prayer, it requires involvement there We need to get in shape physically ladies and gentlemen Because I don't care what your objective is I can share this with you without any reservation When I got in shape physically I was able to do a lot more things with my career Because the energy level increased rather dramatically I have far more energy now than I had when I was 25 years old They tell me, the psychologists do for example, that when I make a one hour presentation That I burn more raw energy than a laboring man does in a ten hour day So when I do six and eight hours a day or even three or four hours in a day or even one hour in a day I have burned some energy As you can tell I speak at about 280 words a minute with gusts up to about 550 I mean, you know, I burn some energy I move it on out Now you also need to understand that if you're going to reach your goals You've got to become attentive to the details in your life A lot of little things that many people overlook And you need to become aware on a daily basis of what you're doing towards those goals Now I'm not trying to get you to be as detail oriented as the executive vice president of our company I mean, he proof reads the Xerox copies I don't think, you know, that's what we're talking about But it is the little things that make the big difference You call a girl a kitten, for example, and she'll love you Call her a cat You see, you got a problem there You can say she's a vision, you score all kind of points Call her a saint, you're in bad trouble It's one thing to tell a young lady that she looks like the first day of spring It's another thing to tell her she looks like the last day of a long hard winter I mean, there is a difference It's the little things Fellas, if you look at your wife and say, you know, honey, when I look into your eyes The wheels of time just stand still That's beautiful, that's portrait, that's motivating, that's exciting But can you imagine what would happen if you were to look at her and say, you know, honey You got a face that'd stop a clock, I mean It's the little things If this watch of mine were four hours wrong, I wouldn't have any trouble with it I can tell you instantly if my watch is four hours wrong But if it's four minutes wrong, I'm in trouble For example, tomorrow morning I catch a flight at 8.20 Now, if my watch is four minutes wrong and I get there at 8.24 See what the problem is? I made a deal with the airlines that, you know, if I was not there when they got ready to go That they were destined to go ahead without me And I found out last year that they live up to their end of the agreement I found out also it's easier to catch those dudes before they leave the ground All of that to say it's the little things that make a big difference If you want to reach your goals, ladies and gentlemen Not only must you be detail-oriented looking after the little things But you also must literally be able to see the reaching When I had my physical examination at the Cooper Clinic Preparatory to losing the weight and getting on the exercise program One of the things I did over there, and this is kind of ugly But I had not read Anne Lanner's at the time, and I'll use it as my excuse Although I really knew better You know, Anne says you're not supposed to steal pages out of other folks' magazines There was a magazine in Dr. Cooper's office It was an old magazine now And there was a picture in it advertising jockey shorts Now, I don't know if you folks read the jockey short ads or not But if you don't read the jockey short ads the next time you see one You ought at least look at a picture You'll find out in a hurry they don't put jockey shorts on fat boys I mean, they just don't At least they don't have a good year Now, I took that picture of that fella in those jockey shorts And I hung it up in my bathroom and I said, now there's my hero That's the way I'm going to be That's the way I am going to look Well, the next morning at 5.30 The opportunity clock sounded off Negative people call them alarm clocks You know, the opportunity I mean, if you can hear it That gives you an opportunity to get up and go You know what I mean Opportunity clock sounded off I rolled out of bed, put on my fancy running outfit I just got and hit the front door and ran a block, literally Did better the next day I ran a block and a mailbox Did better than that the next day I ran a block and two mailboxes I'll never forget what happened Then finally one day I ran a half a mile, then a mile, then two miles Then three, then four, then five But every time I went in the bathroom, ladies and gentlemen I saw the picture of that guy in the jockey shorts That became my goal right there I visualized myself as looking just like that guy right there I'm going to look like this man in the jockey shorts The truth of the matter is we really do need to have a clearly defined target We need to be able to literally see ourselves as reaching that objective For many, many years before I ever succeeded, quote, on the platform as a speaker It was my dream to do exactly that I cannot begin to tell you the tens of thousands of speeches I made in my mind In order to reach that particular goal I visualized every speech imaginable And the beautiful thing about imagination, you see Is you can visualize any kind of speech and any kind of response you want In these speeches which I made in my mind And boy, do I ever wish we could have recorded just one of them You talking about speeches You've heard about speakers having folks rolling in the aisles I had them rolling up and down the steps You heard about standing ovation My average standing ovation was 11 minutes in my dreams I mean, listen, I never made a mistake in the speech I had in mind to mind The audience sat there with incredible rapture and attention I mean, as if they could not believe that a mere mortal could utter Such incredible words of wisdom I mean, the beautiful thing about the imagination is, you see You can make it absolutely just right You gotta have your dreams But let me tell you something, folks Be careful about your dreams, be very careful Because you see, when you dream those dreams When you write them down When you put a date on it When you list the obstacles which you have to overcome in order to get there When you identify the people, the groups, and the organizations You need to work with in order to get there When you spell out what you've got to know in order to reach your objectives When you devise that plan of action, that game plan to get there And when you write it down, what's in it for me When you do all of those things, ladies and gentlemen And follow some of these other steps that we're talking about and are still talking about You're gonna be reaching some of those objectives I can honestly look you in the eye and say That virtually every major objective I've ever set in my life has been reached And I honestly believe that the rest of them will be reached When you follow the steps with firm conviction When you've made your commitment When you do all the things we're talking about All of those things are gonna happen in your life If you'll notice, I've not even hinted throughout this entire presentation That it is easy because it is not As a matter of fact, I'm absolutely convinced that life is tough But the point is you gotta be tough on yourself And when you're tough on yourself Then life is going to be infinitely easier on you I can tell you it's fun I can tell you it's exciting I can tell you it's rewarding I can tell you that when you follow all of the steps we're talking about That all the goals we've been talking about The physical, the mental, the spiritual, the social The career goals, the financial goals They all come to pass You see, the interesting thing is as we look at our goals There's no such thing as an individual goal When I set the goal, for example, of writing that book Only about one in 2,600 pages a day Until I realized that it would have such a bearing on my social goals You'll be amazed at the people that invite me to a free dinner now Since I wrote a book I mean, it affected my social life But you know what, it also affected my family life Because I had to do a lot of research to put it together It improved our relationship It improved my spiritual life Because again, I had to do some research there It definitely improved my physical life because I tied it in Had a dramatic impact on my career Had an impact in every phase of my life Your goals are going to do the same thing There's no such thing as an isolated goal They're all tied in to so many of your other goals In order to reach your goals We need to be able to visualize all of them Many years ago in the days of the sailing ship There was a young sailor who was out at sea for the first time And he was ordered aloft to trim the sails Because a squall was coming up And as he started to climb up He made the mistake of looking down And the roll of the ship and the turbulence of the sea Combined to cause him to become nauseated And he started to lose his balance and fall An older sailor underneath shouted up at the young man Look up, son, look up And the young sailor looked up And immediately regained his balance You see the message is very clear When the outlook isn't good, try the up look It's always good And when things don't look good Look to make absolutely certain That you're not facing in the wrong direction As Helen Keller so eloquently put it When you're looking at the sun You won't see the shadows And when you're looking towards your objectives Which you've set You won't be seeing so many of the obstacles As you reach towards those goals Many years ago, as some of you know The great Houdini was in his heyday Some people said that Houdini was the greatest magician Who ever lived He was also the master locksmith He made the boys that he could get out of any jail cell In the world If you'd let him walk in that jail cell With his street clothes on He would be out in less than an hour A small town in the British Isles built a new jail They were tremendously proud of it They didn't believe Houdini or anybody else Could get out of their jail And so they challenged him to come give it a try There's a lot of publicity, a lot of money involved Houdini liked both of those things So he accepted the challenge There was a lot of the publicity going in The drums were beating, the bugles were blaring And Houdini strode triumphantly into the jail cell They closed the door behind him Houdini took his coat off And secreted in his belt was a 10-inch piece of steel Very tough, very flexible, very durable And he went to work on the lock At the end of 30 minutes the confident Even arrogant expression on Houdini's face had disappeared At the end of an hour he was absolutely bathed in perspiration At the end of two hours he actually collapsed And fell against the door Which opened Because it had never been locked Anywhere except in Houdini's own mind Which meant very simply that it was locked more securely Than if every locksmith in Britain Had put their best locks on the door I've got to tell you folks There are a lot of people who can stop you temporarily But I'm also going to look you right in the eye And tell you that you are the only one Who can stop you on a permanent basis And I've got an idea as you digest What we've been covering in this hour together That you're not going to let anybody else stop you On reaching those worthwhile goals And you're certainly not going to stop yourself But let me say this What you get by reaching your goals Is not nearly as important As what you will become By reaching the goal that many people said You would not make when you started out I close with this By these ideas Follow these suggestions Adopt these procedures as your very own Follow them right through to completion And I'll definitely see you And yes, I really do mean you At the top Thank you very much Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Here are additional audio and video cassette programs That will give you further insights On how to become more successful in your own life To complement this video program by Zig Ziglar Here is a six cassette audio package See you at the top Zig is at the top himself and he shares with you his message Don't give in to life, dig in Zig speaks to 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