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be aware when you get on and off that elevator look around the corners make sure nobody's hanging out in the hallway look around when you get inside your home there may be a closet door propped open there may be something out of place out of the ordinary if you see any of these things or even think that something is wrong that's the time when you have to follow your gut and get out of there if you come home and you confront somebody use any distraction in any method you can to get away from them get out and get help one of our worst fears is waking up to find an intruder standing over our beds prevent this by using a simple pull pin alarm to cover your windows and doors this way if an intruder enters your bedroom you'll know before it's too late pepper foam was designed for indoor protection so it's important to place canisters in strategic areas around your home this means entryways bedrooms even your kitchen and bathroom if you're home alone and somebody's trying to get into your house the first thing you've got to do is get out of there if you can't get out call 911 right away be loud let him know that you're calling for help do whatever you can even if it means fooling him and pretending you're not alone if he continues to try to come in then grab your pepper foam and be prepared to fight you're being held down you fight with all you've got but you just can't get free try biting the assailant's hand to make him let go this may give you a chance to strike with your elbow or your hand remember concentrate on the eyes nose and throat amy do you think you could really do that if you needed to i hope i could i think um it you know i i'm pleased that when i was going to use a pepper foam that i was able to do it because i always thought that if i were in that situation i might not be able to use it or you know i'd be hesitant actually doing it but when i went to use it was a reaction i really didn't think about it was almost instinctive i want to just warn people though don't rely on tricks and gimmicks and bells and pepper foam i think it's a wonderful thing and i have it by my bed and all that but in the in the end you have to be able to think isn't that true way you gotta rely on yourself your number one weapon is your brain right and that is escaping christy was saying she didn't realize when when she was attacked in her house she didn't realize how dark her house was it was pitch black and i had been i just came out of the shower and when he was in there all the lights were on and the reason why we started duking out in the first place because he didn't want me to see him so once he gained control over me it was an attempt to shut me up he strangled me so i couldn't scream and then he would go from my neck to my eyes to cover so then he drug me around shut all the lights off and so at that point i at that point i listened and it was more observant than i've ever been in my entire life to get myself out of that situation and we stayed there for an hour and a half and that's why your brain is your number one weapon and you've got to really train yourself you're going to come up with a plan then role play it in your head every day one of one of your makeup people is saying to me that had a bad gut instinct that somebody was watching them i said then you should follow it you think somebody's watching your place they probably are and you should train yourself walking down the street or what we're saying about elevators how many time women in this audience because men don't have to think about this as much have you gotten on an elevator exactly the way you just saw sanford get on the elevator somebody else gets on the elevator in that split second the door closes and there you are alone and you don't know what's going to happen that's why it's real it's real important to be near the panel the control panel so that you control the elevator let me give you one sentence that will help you on all of this wayne paxton oprah all of us are on a track here but you know it requires a new attitude doesn't it and this sentence will help you with that following your gut feeling wayne is right on on that as well my safety first they're feeling second remember that for example when you're in an elevator and you don't want to hurt someone's feelings there'll be a lot of people that will say but this is paranoia you're just creating paranoid and you'll have to realize that it's not being paranoid let me just be aware how are people to take charge of their own safety and not scare the hell out of me i thought what he said sanford said so much earlier is so true you have anything you have in life because of the way you think about your life that's right what happens to you and this is no different and what we have done in this country is live in this state of denial that it can never happen to you it's not going to happen to a member of your family and so you just don't think about it until it's too late we teach our people i'm sorry i've got to point this out because people always second guess women who've been through rape situations so you should have done could have done would have done they don't okay they don't and the first thing i teach my students aside from putting them under the stress of a real life situation is that fighting back is much more than physical just surviving any way you can fighting back these women fought back they are alive he's in jail okay you can learn more self-defense tricks in wayne's video call beating the crime clock we'll be right back we'll be right back the salesman at the furniture store guaranteed his was the lowest price anywhere for this table i guess he forgot to check out united furniture warehouse us united furniture warehouse over 100 locations there's one near you they nest unseen inside your walls the damage could cost thousands but carpenter ants can be stopped by the exterminator the orkin man the exterminator wipes out carpenter ants with the awesome 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